A submissive wife is a happy woman. We can think of no less than 7 reasons to support that statement. Here they are.
1. Submissive wives don’t fight natural law
Natural law dictates that men are the leaders in society. This is borne out by the reality of history. Yes, there are certainly exceptions to this notion, but the rule still stands.
To this day, even in post-feminist America, there are certain elements of our culture that make it clear that men are the leaders. The most glaring example is when it comes to courtship: the man is usually the one who asks the woman out on a date. We see similar examples of this principle scattered throughout our society. Heck, even in ballroom dancing men are expected to take the lead.
Submissive wives have a healthier psyche because they don’t bother to fight natural law. They just accept it. As a result, they are happier.
2. Women typically prefer it when the man takes the lead
Women, by and large, are simply happier when their husbands take the initiative. Deep inside, it’s what they really prefer.
3. Michele Bachmann is probably the happiest person in Congress
Sure, all politicians smile when they are on television. However, when we see Michele Bachmann on television, her smile appears genuine. She just exudes happiness.
She is also a submissive wife.
4. Submissive wives tend to be pro-life
As with every other point we’ve made here, there are certainly exceptions to this. That said, there aren’t many exceptions to this.
Submissive wives tend to be pro-life. As a result, they never have to worry about dealing with the emotional trauma associated with having an abortion.
5. Submissive wives tend to be Christians
At least here in the United States, submissive wives tend to be Christians. Christians believe that they are going to Heaven when they die and that they will spend an eternity in joyful bliss with Jesus Christ.
That will make anybody happy.
6. Submissive wives aren’t bitter like feminists
Feminists certainly reject the notion that women should be submissive to their husbands. Feminists also tend to be really bitter. They lash out against our patriarchal system, against Western culture, against traditional values, and against the fact that men have a penis and women have a vagina. In other words, feminists actually hate reality, and that keeps them from being solidly happy.
Submissive wives don’t hate reality, and they’re happier for it.
7. Submissive wives also don’t follow feminist advice, which leads to depression
Yeah. What this guy said.
Getting married, having children, loving them, and prioritizing their happiness and success over your own self-actualization is a rejection of Feminism at the most basic level. Walking this path will spare the modern woman the psychic torment of reproductive failure. But unless she unplugs herself from mainstream media, and social circles influenced thereby, she will suffer the sting of social rejection, right in the paleomammalian complex.
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is this a joke? Please tell me it is….a bad one, I must say, but a joke none the less. Right?
safe money on it not being Satire.
If only this were the Onion
I agree! I encourage you to email Brian Carey and voice your opinion. This article should be taken down! [email protected]
Excellent article. Nothing but the truth. Women need to stop trying to dominate men in every avenue of our society and western culture. Radical feminism is what is destroying marriages and families.
We wouldn’t have to if men would stand up and take charge.
Right about that…
you are also right…which is proof that the Bible has it right, and we mess have messed things up as usual
Sounds like you may be Muslim, as that is their belief. If that’s your belief, so be it. It is not mine. I am now a widow and I thank God every day that I was always on the independent side, as I could not have made it in todays world had I been a submissive wife.
In ancient tribes women were the leaders of their people, as they kept the families together, nurtured their young, and because they were not prone to fighting/war, they flourished…until one day men realized they were physically stronger than women and began to beat them down into submission. This author is a moron and hasn’t done his homework. Labels like “feminist” has become a negative in our society, and I suspect it was coined by a male. Women and men must both be submissive (check your Holy Bible, as husbands are instructed to be submissive to their wives as wives are to husbands), and agree as to WHEN each will take the lead, depending on personality, personal strengths and weaknesses. There are dominant and there are submissive personalities that are not gender selective. Get a clue.
These supposed ancient tribes are… well thats what they are. Ancient.
This “Modern” world, with its “civilized” age etc. which feminists consider as a something of a license to spread their propaganda was brought about by the innovations as well as the power plays of men. Women may have contributed. Yes. To deny that would be stupid. But in majority it was the decisions and achievements of men that shaped the world as we see it today. And atleast some enlightened men, if not all were there to support your fledgling “feminist” movement, before it’s proponents lost their focus from preventing gender based social injustice and it became nothing but a platform for bitter women to spew venom and roil in their futile misandry.
Remember that before any of you “feminists” start going on a rant about us men. I strongly believe that women should be treated fairly and with understanding. Any kind of gender based stigma must be checked, towards both of the sexes, for ultimately that can only lead to unrest and social degradation.
At the same we men don’t merely exist to conform to what you want us to be. While I agree that men should posses self discipline and control, especially when dealing with women as well as cultivate a mature perspective about the roles of women and who they are as people, we too are what we are. And we make no apologies for it. If you don’t find who we are to your liking, we generally don’t give a f**k anyways. There are plenty of women out there. Other than you so called “feminists”.
Lol, what? What history book have you read that claims to know for fact the exact cultural norms of ‘ancient tribes’? Anything we claim to ‘kno’ about ancient people is merely theories and conjecture.
you are right.
I thought it was the gays wanting to get married and the LIBERALS making the government replace the father.
Radical Feminism is already hear and is obliterating marriages and families. This is the medicine to societies ills
For someone who is anti-Obama, this article has too much in common with Muslim beliefs systems. I do believe family structures are better supported when couples act as a TEAM. Yea, the man may be the “leader”, but without the woman “overstepping her boundaries” and not sitting there totally submissive, he will definitely make drastically eroneous decisions that effect not just him but her as well. I admit, I love a manly man, but I do not sit idly and quietly while my man makes ALL the decisions. And, as a man who oversees many and makes thousand to million dollar decisions on a daily basis, my man welcomes my input here and there to lessen his burden. True, I could never be with a “pushover”. I like my men masculine and love to please him, but I would never call me a submissive and he would never be happy with a complacent Stepford Wife. And you are also doing your agenda a disservice by trying to ostrasize agnostics, atheists, anyone who isn’t Christian and pro-choice persons. This country needs a drastic makeover and bleeding heart liberals make me wanna vomit, but we will never succeed with strengthening this country’s spirit and economy by alienating those who don’t want/need religion to be good people.
This article is kind of childish, but you are mistaken in assuming submission means subservient and weak. My wife enjoys being submissive in all areas of our life with me, but she by no means is weak or just going along with me all the time. A good dominant husband will put his family above himself. I make decisions and lead, but I only do it in the context of what’s best for my family instead of just me. She’s submissive to me because I always do what’s best for her and our kids even when she wouldn’t have done it herself. She respects that, and deep down, she realizes that I truly am selfless. However most men aren’t this way, sadly. If they were, then they’d realize how easy it is to find a wife willing to submit to your authority. You just have to show them that you’re truly worthy of them giving you control, and that you won’t abuse it like so many men before you probably have.
I fully agree with this. Me and my girl get along great and have been together for over 20 years. At the same time, this doesn’t mean a guy should treat his girl like crap and expect things to work out.
Oh enough already! Why does one sex have to dominate the other? I’m sick of men thinking women have to be submissive and women thinking men have to be the bumbling inept fools portrayed on TV. Everyone should just be equal, not identical, not better, just equal in value no matter their gender or profession. Just be your best self, whether that is a stay at home parent, a doctor, lawyer, baker, or candlestick maker. Work with your partner as an equal to accomplish common goals and value everyone. Why is this so hard?
Who said one sex has to dominate the other? Who said men and women aren’t equal? This article does not suggest that.
Feminazi. Your comment does not reflect reality. People are not equal. We may have been created equal, but our choices dictate who and what we really are and what kind of life we will live. This article is saying submissive women make a choice- in which being submissive means being happier.
That how it worked for us for 43 years. She passed away with cancer. Bet there was not a happier couple on the planet. It was a normal relationship. we were partners in everything. Hell of a woman! The word used in Genesis of the Bible where God made woman or helpmate for man connotes different but equal in value. Submissive does not mean subservient nor should it. It would have been a crappy relationship if either of us had gotten our way all the time. I liked her, loved her, admired her, wanted her. I still recall the bouquet of her hair, the music that was her voice, the softness of her touch, the warm velvet feel of her skin. and the incredible way she loved her children.
You nailed it, Edward, when you drew the comparison between “submissive” and “subservient.” God did not create woman to be subservient to a man but rather to be submissive to his lead in raising the family and in making decisions. Our society has fallen away from this in the last century which has lead to discord in marriage and divided families. God did create both sexes of equal value but we each have our “calling” if you will, and we have to follow this calling in order to have a happy marriage and family life. I am so very sorry for the loss of you life mate. Forty three years in today’s society is remarkable. God bless you.
Yeah, the problem though is when the father is a piece of shit, and the mother obeys him. If only real life was as simple as theoretical formulas for success.
Marsha, Not all churches follow that recipe. Not all Christians believe in submission.
Wrong, submission without subservience is mediocrity and pretty near, if not actual rebellion.
Rebellion…wow…a woman having her own mind and thoughts to you constitute rebellion. I know you’re a troll and you’re just saying shit to get a rise out of female readers here, but I urge you to seriously ponder why you need to feel so superior to half the planet. And why you would consider your wife your slave to do your bidding, and you her master. Speaks to a flawed and bitter soul.
I’ve never cried due to a comment before. You had love Edward. Lists like these aren’t required when two people are meant to be. You are a truly wonderful man, she was a very lucky lady. 🙂
Another apologist, yes wimp, submissive DOES mean subservient, anything less is subpar.
stfu misogynist pig.
I guess because I always felt I had to prove my worth. and I was married to a controlling man.Now that I’m free of this sick relationship,I would like to be in an equal relationship,but I don’t seem to meet the right person.
Esther I really like your comment… thank you
I think it’s so hard cause most are not equal. Having that said, playing the dominant/submissive role is not an oppression, it’s more like a game that satisfies both, but that behind the appearances, both are more or less equally satisfied.
If you have a job, you are by nature of the hierarchy submissive to your boss. That obviously doesn’t mean your boss is better than you or more valuable than you. He’s merely the one who leads, and you’re the one who follows.
Actually, it does normally indicate more value. Which is why there is a pay difference normally and a less expendable number of people at he position and even more so moving up. However, the boss (ideally), is the more qualified expert based off his experiences and education. There’s a reason most people (including men) dislike nepotism. It gives an unfair advantage to other’s possibly and often less qualified simply because. Because of things that have absolutely nothing to do with the skills required or the work ethic that is usually advertised as desirable. The truth is, men DO NOT want to admit that women are simply adult people too. Even if an employee ‘chooses” to work under a boss, that position is for a limited number or hours. They are simply hired for a service and free to go. As well, there is usually the possibility to rise from this position. For a submissive wife, there is no change. She never ascends in position. Is never lord of her own life. And that is a degrading station. She only has hope that a man does not abuse his dominance, but psychologically she must qualify not only his commands but also desires everyday — not including children as well. Men desire for women to be happy to hold a position they would never want in a million years. They want women to welcome this role to make THEIRS lives easier, because before we had any right, WE HAD NONE! Prostitution is the oldest profession and guess who kept it alive? All those traditional MEN, men who yielded power over their wives livelihoods while they took on other wives or mistresses. They held all the cards, and if a woman didn’t like the shots she called, well she could be tossed out on her butt with nothing. No rights, no money, no option for a job, and no assistance with society because the society was ONLY MEN! Look at THAT bleak picture. If these submissive women were really about serving others, they would sacrifice their kinky need to be dominated for the greater good of the sisterhood. Because for every sweet man who looks past the responsibilities of a wife to him, and instead looks to his role in serving her as a guiding light to the harmony of a home; there are 10xs more men dying to live their fantasy of a maid/mom/mistress model wife. They offer nothing but the bare minimum that would keep them in power.
Awesome! I know, I wonder the same, equality should be easy.
This article sounds as if it was written by a deranged cult leader. Anyone who justifies the “oppression” of women by disguising under the ideals of Christianity is a twisted, misguided, imbecile. Any woman who feels it’s natural to be dominated by a man should seek therapy.
Women are not oppressed and have never been.
Real women who are in tune with their nature love being submissive wives.
And men who do not know that and not give it to them are losers.
Women have never been oppressed? What world do you live in? If you are old enough to type on a computer you have been alive for years of female oppression; sexual assault and victim blaming, denial to equal education and/or pay, and massive under-representation of female accomplishments in the popular culture.
Bullshit. It has always been lies constructed on half-truths. Ever since 1848 Seneca Falls.
I don’t know. Seeing someone like guber talk, i think some women like that. And that’s kind of exciting in a way. Raping, abusing, subjugating women that are as rotten inside as guber. Perhaps there’s more to life than seeking justice and being nice. Perhaps to women, justice is to not be nice, and to dominate them sexually.
“And men who do not know that and not give it to them are losers.” – You’re kind of bitter like a feminist. You should be more submissive. :3
Why would I be bitter, I got it in time and am being richly rewarded.
I don’t know why you’re bitter, but you are.
No I am not. And what this Filipe does is a tactic of evasion from the subject by making conjectures about his oponents. Filipe doesn’t like to read the truth, so he finds some way to avoid it.
You’re talking about yourself guber. If you were submissive you wouldn’t be making bitter comments, accusing others of being losers, or portraying a cynical posture. If you were submissive, you would be sweet, and nurturing.
Again, people can see that these folks are trying to trick you by making some conjecture of you and then make you defend yourself. There is no point in it. Someone who makes such conjectures is an idiot. He has nothing else to say. So they construct such stupid tangent. The truth is plain to see for those who have eyes to see and a mind to think.
Exactly, that you are not a submissive woman. You may pretend to be, but you’re not. Submissive women are nice, and don’t portray such caustic behavior.
Well, I better am not a submissive woman, because I’m a man. Haha.
And yet you let people think you’re a woman while arguing with them. That’s wrong on so many levels i can’t even begin to think how that’s messed up. Either way, if you really were a dominant man too you wouldn’t be here chatting and causing intrigue like a woman, you’d be fucking someone and dominating them somewhere. 😛
This Filipe is really funny. “Let people to believe” — I am not responsible for the twisted conclusions that come out of your twisted brain. May be you want to check if you have balls between your thighs or if you have lost them.
I have them. You on the other hand, i doubt it. Too much intrigue making for a real man.
What stupid whining. I am not responsible to check your assumptions and protect your from mistakes. You aren’t listening anyway. What stupid bickering.
Indeed, starting with your first reply. End of discussion. 🙂
Finally.
Indeed. Nice you recognized it too, lol.
Not really. Oppression is rape, sexual abuse, beating. Also emotional violence, in the form of excessive drama for instance, coming from a mother or girlfriend/wife. Having that said, submissiveness is just being more childish and expecting the other person to take initiative.
Finally someone who is not half retarted around here…Honestly,I cannot BELIVE that some people really want and like to be”submissive”.Let’s face it,those who think that being a sub.woman is ok are generally stupid and don’t ready very many books.
They are stupid and never apply their full potentials for anything, because some insecure male is ruling over them. As a woman, I don’t respect them, they are cowards.
You said it,honey..I agree 120%,and then some! This is the 21st century..enough of the inequality,oppression,lack of civil rights,etc,etc.ALL WOMEN need to be strong and not take B.S. from a man,enough’s ENOUGH!
I guess it has something to do with their upbringing..
One reason for one to be submissive: not needing to the responsibility of your own actions.
There’s that bitterness showing.
Amen to that,sister! WOO-HOO!
Mrs.JJ , Therapy seems to be common amongst those whom embrace feminist ideology. Well spoken.
So interesting reading the comments; from enlightening to disgusting, intelligent to narrow-minded. I unleashed this tirade by asking if I was wrong to be so subservient. I am, and I am submissive, and I just love to please my man. In turn he is so happy that he only seeks to please me. Nobody dominates me, nobody treats me badly. I allow whatever ‘treatment’ of me, whether good or bad. It is my choice, my own doing. I am a Christian, I am white, I am a normal female living a normal (whatever that may be) life.
Nowhere in this article did it mention oppression or dominance dont be so BITTER JJ
I do not subscribe to feminism in any way but most men these days are not capable of being the leader. Now I blame feminism for this but it is still true. A woman these days cannot just trust that she will be taken care of if she sacrifices her youth to raise children and build a home. Men are not the honorable creatures they would need to be to be worthy of this type of woman. Now feminism trained men to be this way but there is no way back until both sides find some balance.
Feminism gy text definition is being a full citizena and not being denied equal protection under the law. Women still need feminism. If we were equal teachers that ape 14 YO girls would get more than a month in jail. Women are still viewed as things to far too many.
Lol, what? You’re right that we aren’t equal, but you missed the mark while using a horrible example. Female teachers who RAPE MEN (statutory…) get little or no time at all. Male teachers who rape women students get the book thrown at them while they are shamed in front of the world. Also, the dictionary definition of feminism is at odds with the majority of mainstream feminists’ views of today. Very few men would disagree with actual equality. The problem is that equality is not what feminists are trying to get.
Firstly, zero evidence to support any of this bologna. Second, submissive wives tend to be christian? Are you high? By far the largest collection of submissive wives would be in Islam.
Nope. Wrong again buddy. Its backed up by female psychology
True. I’m a woman and I think men are just supposed to be in charge and dominant. They’re supposed to tell women what to do how to make them happy. Men are supposed to be in charge women are supposed to entertain and make their lives easier and to take care of the home
I think being christian unfortunately means nothing. Vatican’s age of consent is 12 and most aren’t complaining about that. That either means female christians are supporters of paedophilia, or really enjoy having sex with older men since the age of 12.
Islamic wives aren’t dominated; they’re abused. There’s a difference.
You have Muslim women, mixed up with ISIS. Have you ever met a Pakistani woman, gawd, they are sharp, tough, don’t let anything get by them. I actually think the most abusive thing, is the “love/respect” exchange, done in Christian marriages, it is a psychological game, played on insecure , brainwashed, women who don’t have a backbone and lost their sanity.
Actually no, I know Muslim women , and they are not submissive at all. They are very feisty and strong, and have opinions. I really think Christian women, have been the most submissive, they are so meek and quiet, many of them ,and don’t have their own opinion. Submission is bad for women, no matter what, but just wanted to mention what my experience has been. The hook and line the Christian husbands use has been “love” because Christian women have this drilled into their head , from churches and Bible studies, that they are supposed to want love , even above respect, which of course is ridiculous, but it’s what the churches teach them. The whole “love” snare is a game the Christian husband plays, to get a brainwashed woman, to be submissive. It’s a cycle , that needs to change.
U’r right, Rachel.. I l worked in the Middle East last year and I have witnessed that rich Muslim women get equal treatment & they’re Queens to their husbands not a f**ckin’ servant.
Speaking as a Christian man, I can only say that submissive in the Bible does not mean dominated. The man and women in a marriage are in a partnership. This is why woman was taken from a mans rib. She is his equal. A rib being under the arm means it is the mans job to protect her and to bear the heavy burdens in this life. The man must answer for all the decisions made. He can’t blame it on her. He had the final decision. Period. And by the way, I’ve been married over 30 yrs, my oldest brother 48 and my parents over 65. All our wives are strong women. My mother run the family operations for my father and my wife runs a multi-million dollar business for her brothers. Do they sound weak to you?
If they accept that whole rib thing as a Factual Thing That Actually Happened, they sound a little deranged, but no, not necessarily weak.
I have a small problem with the idea that nan was created first, and woman was an afterthought. Full body scans of pregnant women reveal that ALL fetuses begin as female until the 6th week, when those with the XY chromosome receive a massive dose of testosterone which transforms the ovaries into testicles and the clitoris into a penis. This suggests that females came first. The Torah was written in a patriarchal society by the same people who changed the Sumerian flood legend into Noah and the Ark, and got some of the facts wrong.
This is what happens when you speak about something you have only a superficial familiarity of.The actual account in the bible is that man and woman were actually created conjoined then separated.You also got your facts wrong in regards to Sexual differentiation. Actually all fetuses start out with both male wolffian ducts and female müllerian ducts. In males the wolfian ducts turn into the male reproductive system while In females the wolffian disintegrates and the müllerian turns into the uterine tubes and uterus.
After reading your slightly insulting reply, I googled both subjects. God took one of Adam’s ribs and created Eve- he didn’t split him down the middle, there was no couponing mentioned. On fetuses beginning as female, most sources agreed with me. Two basically said you were right, it is neutral. Men’s nipples and the seam men have that used to be an opening, which becomes a woman’s vagina were mentioned. One source said the x chromosome activates before the y, making fetuses female for a few weeks. Evidently it depends on how you want to spin it. It reminds me of how no one can prove or disprove the existence of God. The evidence I see as proof, an atheist would see as supporting his position. Have a nice day.
The idea is mentioned in the Talmud and is based on the the verse in genesis 1 ; 27 its been taught for thousands of years! ( I can tell you more sources if you want )As for the issue of sex in a fetus i dont know what you are reading but the fact of the matter is that the zygote is sexually undifferentiated. look up sexual differentiation in wikipedia. Moreover it is a fact that every female started out with wolfian ducts which would have become the male reproductive system .The same material that produces testes produces ovaries in females.
No you’re wrong all life at the moment of conception is female period.
You’re a shining example of the arrogance of someone with what they believe is correct knowledge and spreading it around.
Religion is a one upmanship anymore and until the I’m better than you garbage stops the world will pay heavily for it.
wow what a wacky reply .You present no proof and have no argument.All you did was make an arrogant proclamation of your opinion which means nothing . while hypocritically calling a reasoned argument arrogance??!! what are you smoking??
Hush! You are blowing their minds! The idea that the penis-wielders above could have actually started at conception as female is TOO MUCH! It’s almost like women are ***ssshhhhhhh*** equal to men or something! That would mean that OMG women are not created to submit to men, their penises, and their egos! AHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! [sound of their universe crashing in]
The Bible most certainly does not say that woman was an “afterthought”. Just because she was created after man doesn’t make her an “afterthought”. By that reasoning, human beings are an afterthought to bugs and rats because bugs and rats were created before humans. If you look at the order of creation, it mostly starts with simpler things and builds up to the more complex. The Catholic theologian Thomas Aquinas once wrote that woman was created last because she is the crowning achievement of creation.
(a) An unborn baby does not “start out female”. Some male characteristics may not be visible until later in development, but some female characteristics are not visible until later either. If someone sets out to build a car and puts on the wheels last, that does not mean that up to that point it is a boat because it doesn’t have wheels. (b) In any case, so what? Presumably God knew he was going to create a woman. It’s not like after creating the man he said, “Hey, I can do better than this, let me try again.” (Though many women might find that a plausible theory …)
What’s the problem here? All these are politically correct liberal interpretations of the Bible. Basically fighting reality, and at odds with the original wisdom of the Bible. You are welcome to believe that and organize your life accordingly, but it is not what the Bible says.
The wisdom of the Bible knows the man should naturally lead, because the man has a different perspective. Only God watches out for a man, and the man watches out for his woman. This establishes the line of responsibility, and it is good.
Man and woman are not “equal partners” in every respect. It is a lie even among the “progressives” and feminists. Women receive benefits they have not worked for, which is why women control more spending and wealth all the while earning less. The “gender wage gap” is an expression simply of women working 25% less at average, and the vast majority of women in couples work far less and the biggest single category is those that do not work at all. Women in general do not stay with husbands who do not provide for them. This is not an “equal partnership” so it should not be called one. By the way, when women are said to be the head of a household, it is usually divorced women, 70% of divorces filed by women, or unwed mothers, who, given the plenty of birth control available, are the only ones responsible for having that child. These women are supported by men, who pay 70% of taxes, if not direct assistance extorted from them on behalf of women. This is not an “equal partnership” between men and women.
No, men have built the world and all its amenities as well as the peace and liberty which we all enjoy. Men are the only ones protecting that. Women are enjoying it, ever so ungratefully spinning selfish myths about their perceived oppression. There is no equality among men and women. Men bear the responsible and receive no compassion, women are excused from every mistake they make, all the way to when they murder their children or husbands.
No the Bible understands the reality way more than the liberals have spun in their superficial interpretations of the rib. The people of the Bible knew that feminism was bullshit, that women fight for their rights, never for men, while men fight for women. This is why Paul recommends that women should not generally be teachers. And it was wise when I read some female pastors already spinning in private self-pity about their constant living with rape hysteria.
The Bible understands that it is the woman who is the primary risk of marriages breaking up, which is why the Bible defines Adultery as extramarital sex where the woman is married, and metes out capital punishment for both perpetrators. The highest punishment, apparently the Bible knows something about the importance of intact families for the survival of God’s people against the enemies who want to destroy them. Feminists certainly are those enemies (and a tool of the greater destructive force.)
The Bible recommends women do not cut their hair but cover it. You see, the Bible even understands what is good fashion.
I am not a literalist of fundamentalist whatsoever, but I am sick and tired of this wishy-washy Christianity using Bible quotes to justify completely unfounded popular attitudes.
This was refreshing to hear not coming from my own mouth. Truth is good.
And by the way, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a literalist fundamentalist.
Men are also the largest perpetrators of crimes around the world and historically. They are and have always been the greatest threat to women in everyday life. Men built everything? Of course they did. They were the only ones allowed to work and earn money. And then you are supposed to be a christian but God doesn’t look out for women .. only men?
“Men bear the responsibilities” of what? The unprotected sex they had when they try to abandon the woman after? Because that’s all child support is. Oh, and divorce rising … yeah that’s called freedom of choice finally. No longer being dependent to the point that your life is chained to men who don’t respect, appreciate, treat well, abuse, dominate, intimidate their wives around. When anyone has leverage being taken advantage of is much less likely. Women used to have NO RIGHTS. So lie and say that they were not mistreated often during the centuries of the worlds existence.
And lastly, just because something has been for a long time, does not mean it’s right. Murder has been around almost since the beginning of time. But your book says it’s wrong. Accept the truth and learn to be a good person. That’s what feminism came to teach YOU and men like you. Who clearly would be just the type of a**hole to create the hell life women used to endure.
Now that’s one load of defensive bullshit, half of it being unrelated to any subject. Cry me a river.
I don’t see any feminists begging to become welders on skyscrapers. 95% of workplace deaths are men. Why? Because no woman signs up for the tough work. 95% of those killed in battle have been men. When a boat sinks, women and children first. When any catastrophe happens, men are barely mentioned. The days of men being considered disposable are OVER, and your points are just typical feminist propaganda that is based deeply on lack of respect and love for men.
How about I stand before God on my own, and you stand before God on YOUR own? I may love a man, respect him, and admire him. But I want and need no man to stand in between myself and my Lord. Men have such enormous egos, it’s almost idolatrous. They make themselves into little Gods, and want only women who worship them and their “leadership”. Not Christian AT ALL, at least as Christ taught.
Your obvious unhappiness is due precisely to your rebelliousness. Modern woman sadly only argues and never takes responsibility for being wrong, only tried to proclaim all good comes from her and all evil from men (patriarchy. You even named your primary enemy after men). You hate men calling them egotists, etc, when everything wonderful and helpful and great on this earth was created by men. Yes, even children, whom all women take credit for just because they gestate them in their bodies. Look at what happens to a child without a father. My guess is you had a weak or non present father. A submissive woman is the true powerhouse woman who does incredible world changing things and has massive influence. Look historically at the most powerful women and find out for yourself.
You sir are a weakling and wrong, and are apologetic for your natural role because you are mentally unfit to properly fulfill it. Women are inferior, not equal, and are meant to be lead and even dominated, best they get that from good conscientious men, in the absence of such they will get it from someone, like what is happening in Sweden. If good moral men don’t DOMINATE their women, the women will unconsciously seek dominance from those who will provide it, good or bad. Grow up.
The word inferior is subjective. Sorry you feel that way, but what you have stated is not, and will never, be fact. If women were meant to be lead, than they would not lead. But they do, and are good at it, so says several studies you can find online. We were all made with the intelligence necessary to take care of this planet. We just have different ways of doing it, different ways of leading which sometimes clash with each other, or clash with the way things have been for too long. “Men are from mars, women are from Venus.”
Well stated thank you!
I think the article refers to submissive woman who are stay-at-home/full-time housewives..
You have got to be kidding me. Cite sources studies and anything to support your assertions.
TS Enough Said. And to those stating that this is common with muslim women, No it is not. A muslim woman is viewed by her husband as a POSESSION. NOT A PARTNER. Her “place” is in the home cooking, cleaning and raising the children that in some cases barely know their father (not all). A submissive woman in the sense described in this article is one who is second in command of the household. The man in this case is expected to, as stated above, accept responsibility for all family decisions. Not to make every decision, but take responsibility for them. Like the Captain of a ship, even if he is asleep in his quarters and some ensign is driving the ship, if they run aground, the captain is responsible. The woman would stand as the XO, who has a considerable amount of authority in a command. A man with a submissive woman as described would certainly be expected to consult with his wife before making large decisions such as buying a house or car, moving the family, or even things as small as where to eat out, these things are joint decisions. On the same token, both will make a thousand decisions a day without discussing it with the other. But the man with a submissive wife will ultimately treat any decision made by the wife AS HIS OWN because he is responsible for everything that goes on within his family and though his authority should be used VERY judiciously, the man in this relationship can veto any decision in the household. That is because he is the one taking responsibility for it. This is nothing like a muslim. While a muslim man DICTATES the actions of his family and therefore takes responsibility for them, he has no partner/XO.
I have seen families go down the drain because the man insisted on handling the finances even though he was stupid when it came to finances and his wife was a math whiz. His only reason for this was, “Because I’m the man”. A hunk of gristle between your legs does not make you any smarter or more capable than your woman. it should be “each according to his/her talents”, not because of gender.
I take offense to you calling my sex organ “gristle” , however I agree with you otherwise.
You sound bitter and repugnant. Are you a feminist?
Sarah, I’ve seen the same thing happen. A friend’s mom, was great at math, but her domineering husband, didn’t want her balancing the checkbook, the fool ran off with another woman, and she was left with low confidence, the wife was a mess, a disaster, she wasn’t the same sharp person, she used to be. I agree with you on every point! These men are insecure, and it’s too bad , but a lot of these men are young. My grandfather never was leading my grandmother around, this is way back when, but something happened with these right wing wingnuts and the dominance became a fad. It has to go, because it never HAS worked, and harms women.
I agree with the other commentor. Just because a person is called man and has a ding a ling gristle between his legs, does not make him better than a woman.
A smart man recognizes his shortcomings whatever they are. There is no entitlement in a true D/s relationship. The woman gives her submission as a gift and the man accepts it on those terms- it’s mutually beneficial. Accepting or giving the gift does not mean the man is smarter, or a better person to handle finances, or a better communicator, or “better” at anything. It means that they share a relationship where she uplifts him, and he uplifts her.
The only “gift” part is that she chooses which man she will gift her whole self to as wife. After that submission is a debt.
my girl is my muse. i ask her her opinions on most of what we do and weigh them. i have found that she gives another perspective to allow the finding of the right decision. then again it could be the fact that she is a bit smarter than i (not kidding there) that allows us to find the best course of action.
submissive (or passive) behavior means shying away from saying what you really mean and not seeking to achieve your needs, particularly when someone else has conflicting needs. A submissive person is a shrinking violet, avoiding upsetting others either because they fear them or they fear to hurt their feelings.
When things go wrong, the submissive person is likely to assume that they are to blame in some way, and accept culpability when singled out by other people.
submissiveness also tends to breed manipulative behavior. If you can’t get what you want or need by honestly speaking up, you tend to find sneaky ways to do it. Then men say women are sneaky! Slaves are “sneaky” too.
We Do? No we don’t.
I’m yet to find a woman who asks or speaks with honesty about what they want. I’d love to find one, but pretty much all women i and any friend had ever met are into playing mind games and hiding the truth, so it isn’t like it’s a choice for men to listen to what women have to say with openness and compassion for their feelings.
Submission , creates passive-aggressive behavior. It creates a lack of real truth, in the relationship.
Well said!!! These shy people, never achieve and use their talents. I hate to see these relationships, where one person rules over the other, and the wife is a mere child, and not a full adult, having full responsibility as an adult. I know women, who thought just what you said, they believed when things went wrong it was their fault.
Sorry but the submissive relationship sounds like it is just one step up from an abusive relationship because you are acknowledging your inferiority to another person. You are i essence admitting to being a servant to your master.
Nope not true. This is how women are hardwired to work. This is why marriage rates are down the tubes, because men don’t know how to lead a relationship. Guess who divorces them. WOMEN DO…90 percent of the time and they do it because THEY ARE NOT HAPPY. WHY? BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT BEING SUBMISSIVE.
Gosh I totally agree. My ex husband had no idea how to lead anything, made no decisions meaning I had to wear the trousers which felt like a great burden and totally unnatural to me.
^This, lol.
Every person is different, i will accept that there are SOME people ( meaning of both genders) that enjoy being submissive it is their nature. But as a woman I can tell you I am Not hard wired to be that way. I as a general rule believe that as long as it is not hurting someone else every one is allowed to be who and what makes them happy. This kind of opinion (in mine) does more harm then good. Every one is equal, no human less then any other. (Came across this by accident, thought it was meant as a joke at first)
This “hard wired” nonsense , is about brainwashing. I’ve seen intelligent women completely change into boneheads , because they think the husband should lead. This is a really big problem in Christianity today, it’s turning women into zombies, into children, instead of full adults. Equality has to be reached in this Century, the old way , actually doesn’t work, because the men treat women like they’re children, and the women lose their personality, confidence, drive, happiness, inner strength, which unfortunately some insecure men want. I’m engaged and my husband to be is awesome, we are equals, and he thinks men who want to control men are idiots. This is a really big problem in the US, because of right wing Christians, the country is steeped in it.
Men who seek equal partnership are the ones who are confident in their own masculinity..
Yes you are, you are just in brainwashed denial, like most of your decadent degenerate generation.
Nathan You’re projecting what you want in a woman, and not the reality of real life. Real life doesn’t consist of “hard wired” robots, humans aren’t that way. I’m happy being engaged to a man, who believes in equality, we work things out, he doesn’t lead, I don’t sit back and watch, it’s about equality, not submission and leadership, and it works.
Oh, I just love your wide sweeping statement of how women are wired. lol. Of course! That’s why countless women continue to work, although it isn’t pleasant, and continue to strive for something more? It’s because they naturally want a lifetime, flawed, historically oppressive male society. You make sense. smh
Not all women are like that.. Stfu
Nathan, studies show Mens Rights commentors tend to be teenaged boys. Care to share your age, Oh Wise One? Cuz I bet the farm you are just a little boy.
Actually, it’s quite empowering. When a man leads a relationship, you get to feel so sexy, he just takes control and shows you how much he wants you. It’s amazing, primal, carnal, passionate. I love it. Asking him what’s he want me to do for him, and having him tell me. Feminists are always telling me that I’m so stupid because of what I “let my boyfriend do to me” but it’s not like he’s raping me, I want him to be dominant over me. A man who can’t even make the first move, isn’t a man I want. You say in essence, I’m admitting to being a servant to my master, and yes, in essence it’s about subservience, it’s about me knowing he’s stronger than I am and taking up a role I feel is natural. And no, it’s not abusive at all, because everything he does to me, is what I want him to do.
I feel ya’ ..
I don’t know , how a man leading can make any woman “feel sexy”. It’s a big turn off for me, and also gee women want men in a sexual way, it’s not just one way! If you like it , fine, but not every woman is you!
I so agree Rachel. Have you noticed all the Internet articles and tv talk shows that exalt men and feature a bunch of arrogant men sitting wide legged in chairs telling the female co hosts what they want from women and what women have to do to get a man.
These shows are run by male producers and writers, so the female hosts gullibly go along with the script.
You are an alien, get off my planet.
Our Father in Heaven told us how he made us. Husbands you are to LOVE your wife. Wives you must RESPECT your husband. Embrace the truth and have peace and fulfillment. So, do we follow our humanistic wisdom or the wisdom of our Father in Heaven?
Nothing in this article said you shouldn’t love your wife or disrespect your husband. Why do people equate submission to abuse and nonconsent? Submissive wives choose to be that way because they like it. If they didn’t choose to be submissive, then they are being abused. A lot of women are actually turned on by a man being in charge. If you or your SO isn’t, then I’m glad you know what you want, but stop pushing your values and preferences onto others.
Why can we not simply accept that men and women are NOT identical in their core natures and work with that? Women DO tend to be happier if they know their husband is able to lead their family well. That is part of how we were created. That doesn’t mean that she has no say- and certainly many submissive women DO have considerable input. Even many American Muslim women do that. It simply means that he has the final say after hearing all sides and is the one who has to take responsibility for those decisions. Few women would be unhappy knowing that it wasn’t her responsibility alone to make those major decisions for her family. And let’s not forget that a woman who is submissive won’t likely counter her husband IN PUBLIC- but she sure might tell him a few things in private. I think people have the wrong idea. Submission doesn’t have to mean that you are a floormat. It means that you use your own free will in a quiet manner, and take the second place in the family- not the LAST place. A couple has to find out what works for them- and often that may mean that the woman is the one who does the family finances, not the man, or even that she makes the final decisions in some areas where she is uniquely qualified to do so.
If a marriage is between 2 people, If you’re taking second place then you are last.
Wrong. Thats a lie.
A marriage is a partnership. You win and lose together. It isn’t a competition. You obviously have a distorted view of what a marriage and submission actually is. It’s not slavery…
What at crock of shit, Brian. That men most often initiate dating rituals is by cultural stereotyping and brainwashing, not that men are superior to women, and any woman who doesn’t surrender rights under the Declaration of Independence and the 13th Amendment.
I’m so insulted by your chauvinism that I am sorely tempted to sue the shit out of you. (And don’t you dare say that it wasn’t an opinion that submission equals happiness or that it was based on fact. There is no indisputable report or study that supports this crap.
So, your insulted by an opinon? Maybe you should spend less time bitchin and more time in the kitchen?? here, this advise colum should explain it better for you..
http://ethio-winnipeg.tripod.com/whatyoumissedonemailforwarding/id39.html
Lol!
You can’t actually sue people for voicing thoughts you don’t agree with.
How very true! I still can’t believe, how our society still has these social “norms” or rituals, that are outdated and ridiculous. My grandma asked my granddad out at a dance in the 1920’s, that was a very free thinking time. The 50’s I think messed everything up, and the strict dating, and double standard came into play. Submission equals a lot of unhappiness in women, and I have seen women, turn into zombies from this submission nonsense, they believe. I’m in my 40’s now, and I waited till I found a man who loves equality, who wants a strong woman. The wait was more than worth it, and I’m happy I’m engaged to him. I asked him out and he was thrilled, he said ” I love a woman, who doesn’t play by the rules” Now we’re engaged and we are two adults , equal in every way!
Sue away retard, not only was this article completely true but you can’t sue over expressing it. The day such a lawsuit is won is the day to tear every court int he land down to the ground.
I’ve changed my mind. This is my “letter of intent to sue.” Grant the blog owner permission to forward me your email address, meet my terms on a settlement agreement, and I’ll withdraw and permanently withdraw filing.
Gold digger!
Is Brian Carey drink too much kook-aid lately? If this was a “joke” – lousy taste, seriously! If it’s serious, I’m going to have to re-think my subscription to this ….
So I guess you think that feminism is normal?
Wait, I thought this was downtrend, not Seriously For Real!?!
And this nonsense, Muslims are submissive cowerinng slaves and they still get beaten half to death. If you eant obedience, get a dog..
But don’t beat the dog either!
Walk beside me. Not in front, or behind me.
You have to tame them very hard for that to work, lol.
That’s what friends do.
I find your pics of Regina Mills really ironic. You, sir, are a pig.
Is this a joke?
I think a lot of people are going to be happy when Christians like this go to heaven.
I’m sure they’ll be happy when idiots like you goto Hell too, no?
I think a woman should just lie and cheat on a man to get him to be very dominant.
Wow, as a submissive woman I even found this offensive and ignorant.
The truth hurts….huh. Actually this is a well informed article.
I agree! I encourage you to email Brian Carey and ask him to take it down. His email is [email protected]
Howcome?
I don’t know a living soul that enjoys bearing the responsibility of poor decisions. I can’t think of one person who’s ever contended that full accountability for their life choices was a delightful aspect of being a responsible adult. As a woman (a reasonable & mature one) I am accountable for my actions daily. My husband is accountable for his. As a happy person who has a strong sense of self, I could never submit all family & relational decisions in my marriage to my husband. It’s our good fortune that my husband & I share very similar core values. We agree on many things. We are both steadfast & confident people who don’t “need” or require much from the other. When my husband asks that I do something for him, I graciously accept the task b/c he is self sufficient & only asks things of me when he feels he truly needs the help or favor. Any time in our 15 years together that I’ve decided to take on a new venture, running, hunting, sewing, bungee jumping, becoming a victim’s advocate or taking on a new career that kept me away from home for days at a time, and even when I’ve had serious health problems, he has been my rock. He seldom, if ever complains. He offers & even gives support in so many unexpected ways, and has been a driving force in my personal growth & successes. He champions my every endeavor. He being a creature of habit & liking routine is steadfast & familiar. He’s a man that is hard to really give to because he is such a giver himself. I believe our happiness & success as a couple is based on a deep love for one another in every sense of the word. He has no standard that he expects me to meet, nor I him. No fashion or physical requirements or preferences, no expectation of duties fulfilled. We live our lives in service to one another out of love & respect for each other. Our lives aren’t built around who earns what, who decides what or who fulfills which role. That is of precious little importance. Our lives have been built on a foundation of friendship & passion for one another in every sense of the word. Everything I do is out of love for him. Not scriptural obligation or command. If our lives together don’t glorify God, I’m not sure I care to. We know we each were a gift, a blessing to one another. We need no further instruction. I pray every day that men & women around the globe will find & be granted a partnership as beautiful as ours. If at the end of my life, having been married to, loved, cherished & adored by the only man I’ve ever loved is all I manage to accomplish, that will be enough. “The only things you can take with you are all that you gave away.” I submit that being myself is my highest calling. Not being submissive.
I wish G-d will grant me that kind of relationship.. It’s beautiful.
Ah yes, I love how Conservative people think. Do whatever possible to push everyone down in society who isn’t a white/hetero/christian/male. The only thing that comes to mind when reading garbage like this is some people feel awfully threatened by women’s role in society. Suck it up buttercup! 😀
Great comment. Well-said.
I don’t think feminism aims to end racism. If anything it’s just women trying to be as hateful and bitter as the conservative men they criticize so much.
Yes, because all women are just like you. The same way all men are rapist pigs that like to get together every Friday to discuss how best to oppress women… My wife actually came TO ME and asked me to be a lot more dominant. She grew up with a very demanding father, and I think it makes her feel loved to have me be in charge in and out of the bedroom. You are getting dominating and domineering confused. I love my wife very much, and I only dominate her in ways that she wants already. I don’t make her do things she wouldn’t like. Don’t fall into the feminist trap of thinking every single woman on earth is the same as you. If you like being in charge, then good for you; here’s an f-ing cookie. However, don’t try to suppress other women’s personality or sexuality because you don’t agree with it. It causes them emotional trauma due to them being ashamed of who they really are or would like to be. Maybe you should suck it up, buttercup. No one is ‘afraid’ of women. They just want idiots like you to stop pushing their agenda on them. How are you any different from a radical Christian trying to push his beliefs on you? Oh right, you aren’t.
Literally nothing you said was relevant to the original comment lmao
That’s exactly it, they are insecure, and want to control, but the tides are turning and things are changing. 😀
if this is not propaganda, then I don’t know what is. Men who support this BS just want to control women and want us to ‘submit’ joyfully. I’m sorry, but a woman who submits, is NOT happy. That is what religion is about, control. Having a penis more than likely makes you much much weaker than a woman. I’ve seen VERY FEW men who can match a woman in intelligence, emotional strength (I’m not speaking of apathetic soulless mean, I’m speaking of thinking, feeling men with a heart) and passion. Men who believe this BS just like to hunt innocent beings, tell a woman to make him a sandwich, watch football and beat up the dog. Bunch of losers!
Feminazi alert.
You see Melkor, this is some of the reason that women fight you men and against submitting to the husband’s leadership in the marriage. You all cannot control anything else. ‘it is because of your name calling, simply because women have an opinion about how they want to be treated.
The over use of made up disrespectful words about women such as
feminazi” , makes women hate men. Should women start name calling men as a chauvinazi every time he gives his opinion? May erection order for men to understand their nastiness towards women.
And women, please do not stop having your voice heard, this is what those humans with gristle between their legs want us to do. HAving a penis does not make a human any better than anyone else.
any doctor can tell you that a penis can get an infection and fall off. Then that man needs to learn how to function without his gristle.
Jean
Well Guest, Sounds to me like you are a bit of a Misandrist. If you don’t know what that means here it is for you, “its a woman who hates men. Alot of what you said sounds like feminist doctrine, and that is the reason why alot of good hearted, independant, caring and strong men have such hatred and low regard for women such as yourself.
I’m a equalist, and I treat women as my equals however, alot of women don’t like to be treated as equal but rather they like to dominate and over power men. You need to wake up the the reality that women dominate men and its not the other way around – but then again maybe you do know it and you just want to trash men on here who give their opinion.
Also the comment you made about male penis being a gristle was totally inappropriate, and it shows your level of intelligence, or lack there of. You as a women writing malliscious things about a man’s private part makes you look like a abolute C**T, pardon my french, but I just had to say that. I would say that you need to get yourself out of prep school and stop thinking that men are are out to control women. Some men do control but alot of Women do it more. And that is Reality sweet heart!!!
P.S. Oh dear are there any real women left in the world?
Stop referring to women and men as single entities. We are all different with different needs. Do not assume your needs are the same as others’. Also, you are a sexist pig. You are far more sexist than any of the other commenters here. The reason people call people like you feminazis is because, like a Nazi, you try to force YOUR VIEW of sexuality onto other women and men WHO DO NOT AGREE WITH YOU, and you’re a feminist for sure based on what you just typed. So, you are a feminazi. Most ‘feminists’ aren’t tbh. It’s the idiots like you who constantly bash men and claim to stand for all women. News flash: you are not representative of all women. Women who aren’t radical feminists or enjoy submitting aren’t ‘weak’, and they have every right to CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT TO BE. Real feminism used to be about equality. Now it’s just about man bashing and hate. Your comment is a perfect example of this.
Douchebag alert!
Barring the question of transvestites etc. i.e. only considering the two sexes, your statement “Having a penis more than likely makes you much much weaker than a woman” is open to the logical possibility that there is a way to be a man without a penis.
And as to “thinking, feeling men with a heart”, what exactly might that be. The grovelling wimps portrayed in 3rd rate porn? Because anything more than that makes you feel insecure?
As to your having seen VERY FEW men….., well dear
1) Your range of experiences isn’t the super-set of all human experience.
2) Maybe there are men all around you who simply outclass you in intelligence or initiative. It’s just you who is unable to realize that or you simply aren’t able to acknowledge that.
Oh, and by the way, the penis is just a lump of flesh with certain anatomical features in context of the current debate. The real difference is provided by the hormone producing testicles. Get your facts straight bimbo.
And yes, I am a MAN!!
Why do women like you assume other women are all the same arrogant, selfish jerks that you are? A lot of women enjoy different relationship dynamics just like men do. Also, you are being more sexist than the OP. You don’t sound like someone who believes the sexes are equal. You sound like a misandrist.
I believe I just dropped 50 IQ points reading this. Do you have any real sources/proof beyond your own warped speculations?
What utter bullshit. I prefer being submissive to my fiancée and I’m a liberal, pro-choice, Atheist feminist.
It’s amazing how some people don’t have a grip at all on what feminism is actually about. It’s about having the CHOICE. Most women don’t want to be submissive to their husbands and feminists support their right to live in a society that doesn’t force them to. Those of us that enjoy being submissive are equally free to go about our business.
This notion that women would be happier if they would all just submit to their husbands is absolutely ridiculous. Women aren’t “hardwired” to be submissive. It completely depends on their unique personality. Every woman is different and those differences should be respected. It’s always about what the man wants… they just decide to speak for women by declaring we aren’t capable of knowing what we really want; that we would all be happier being submissive. Wrong! When I submit to my fiancée it’s because that’s what I personally want; it’s my choice. Lots of women truly don’t want to do that and it’s perfectly okay. Some men like to be submissive to their wives and that’s okay too.
Also, I see the word “Feminazi” come up in the comment section. I would just like to say, as a Jewish girl (you still stay Jewish after you stop believing in God btw.. just to clear that up for the Gentiles) I find that to be EXTREMELY offensive. Maybe you should think twice before dragging Nazis, and by extension the Holocaust, into subject matter where it most certainly does not belong. So disrespectful. This article and some of its comments are just completely meshuganah.
You sound like a typical bitter feminazi to me.
And you sound like a wedge, simplest of tools. Isn’t life grand!
awwww bless your heart
LOL. Back at ya, darling.
Awww bless your heart. Back in the kitchen now;) Good girl;)
Nope. Still can’t quite get it can you? Pity.
Some of us like “boring” sweetie. It keeps life in check unlike you full blown emo psychos:)
Well, congrats on nailing boring then, sugar-tits. I’d imagine what we humans call “emotions” would be a problem if you weren’t clearly a psychopath. C’est la vie, you tiresome creeper.
Aww sweetie, dont go away mad….just go away! Toodles!
Morons don’t make me sad, butter-butt, fret not. I’d love to go, but you just keep bugging me. Do pike off and stop my notifications from pinging, you silly turd.
LMAO Joke’s on you:)
But, I’m not you and you’re the only “joke” here.
This is a wonderful article. But I don’t agree with TS, a woman is not equal, she is the man’s COMPLEMENT. We have different strengths in different areas and as a couple we are complete.
I wish more women would go this path to happiness and let themselves go into the strong and caring hands of a man.
Don
Why don’t women just lie, cheat, and be players, suppressing their men instead?
It doesn’t matter whether one agrees with this article or not since women not only dominate in the home but are gaining the same status outside the home. As this has shaped all cultures pretty well, here in the west males are not wanting to marry or live together under one roof let alone want the risk of having a baby when things become even worse in relationships. This generalization will continue to gain strength. As this change strengthens, I don’t know what many childless women will do although they may feel an increased depression. Was the change in western culture over 5 decades worth this? Young people are now the victims of this swift social-economical change affecting propagation of the human species. How a woman can be a Career woman, a mother of a few kids, and a wife simultaneously is nothing short of a blatant Insane Ideology.
The author of this retched article is entirely misinformed. As a agnostic atheist, submissive wife AND feminist, I resent many of these sexist and ignorant statement. Feminists are not bitter nor are we unhappy. I cannot even begin to express my disgust with you spreading this false information. I pity any women who have entered your egocentric circle.
You sound bitter to me! lol
So interesting reading the comments; from enlightening to disgusting,
intelligent to narrow-minded. I unleashed this tirade by asking if I
was wrong to be so subservient. I am, and I am submissive, and I just
love to please my man. In turn he is so happy that he only seeks to
please me. Nobody dominates me, nobody treats me badly. I allow whatever
‘treatment’ of me, whether good or bad. It is my choice, my own doing. I
am a Christian, I am white, I am a normal female living a normal
(whatever that may be) life. Can anyone see anything wrong with that?
Cool. I approve.
As a feminist, I have officially forced my husband to read this article and be this “submissive wife” because I’m the breadwinner.
I hope that satisfies you sexist, Christian pricks.
I honestly think men should be the submissive bunch. I’m not a feminist, just somebody who not mattering their gender would enjoy dominance. As long as I’m on top, it’s all cool. If a woman wants to be submissive, that’s her choice. It’s just not my road. I’m perfectly happy and I’m a dominant whore. Love yourselves ladies, not mattering your sexual preferences. And other ladies, ask your boyfriend to make you a sandwich. If he does it, you have yourselves a keeper.
>inb4 brian joke
So much bullshit here I don’t even know where to start. Do what works for you and stop trying to justify it with your politics or religion. How is Michelle Bachman a submissive wife– doesn’t she hold a leadership position in society that she regular leaves her family to fulfill? And yes submissive women can end up depressed or confronting an unwanted pregnancy. As far as submissive wives and Christianity maybe you ought to start building alliances with Muslims who oppress their women too– oh wait it’s wrong when they do it, I forgot!
Wow, I hate this article so much. And I AM naturally submissive when it comes to my boyfriend. But this article sounds more like it’s trying to promote domestic abuse and put down anyone who is non-Christian or a feminist. In all other aspects of my life, I am the dominant one. I submit to my boyfriend because that is what feels natural to me. BUT, I also know that there are women who are the dominant ones in their relationships and that there are men who enjoy being subservient to their wives and girlfriends. I also know that feminism is not a bad thing, (unless you’re going to extremes, in which case, that isn’t feminism). So yeah. There is a lot wrong with this article that bothers me on an innate level.
Funny how you said submissive for yourself, but SUBSERVIENT for the men. The words have different meanings. Similiar, but different mind you.
If you want to be a submissive housewife then by all means, that’s what you should do. I won’t stop you, do what makes you happy. I know that it wouldn’t make ME happy, I have dreams to be a lawyer, I have an amazing boyfriend who treats me as his equal and I love my life like this. Respect my right to choose my life path, and I respect your right to choose yours. Do what makes you happy, whether it’s to be a dominant or submissive female or somewhere in between.
If emma watson knew her image was being used in this list she would be PISSED.
This list is clearly a troll list anywy
As a “submissive” wife, I can say that, in general, we are not happy. We have been ignored and overruled until we just don’t care anymore. Why should we care if the whole world, as well as our lives and our marriages, go to hell in a hand basket? It will be our husbands’ faults, not ours. So, don’t worry, be happy! Right??? Death will set me free.
Today is March24, 2016
Women who are submissive are not the happiest women. Stop lying and deceiving these women. That is one of the biggest myths you men and some brainwashed women marriage writers put out there. Stop trying to brainwash females into believing this crap so they will bow down to a man.
This is a dangerous doctrine. It exalts men just because they have more physical strength and they have huge egos. Ladies, please keep your job so that you can be able to not have to kiss up to your husband. Be independent before you marry. These men will change into selfish inconsiderate oafs and they are evil and are led you Satan!
Run ladies, run in the other direction. Men will change and then hurt you after you get married to them.
bitter b7tch..
OMGGGG THIS IS THE MOST SEXIST MISOGYNISTIC ARTICLE (NO NOT EVEN AN ARTICLE) JUST DUMBASS GIFS FROM DUMBASS MISOGYNIST MOVIES “THAT PROVE SHIT” THIS IS DISGUSTING WOMEN ARE NOT HAPPIER WHEN SUBMISSIVE. OBVIOUSLY A MAN WROTE THIS.
Thank you for helping me understand my place as a woman. For years I’ve been dogged down with bitter feminist ideology but now that I’ve accepted that woman’s natural role is beneath a man, my life has become simpler and happier. When men tell me what to do it allows me to focus on less stressful things and it makes them happy 🙂
Well it is very true that Career women make very Horrible wives.
Well since most women that have their Careers nowadays are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, narcissists, and very money hungry which certainly speaks for itself since most of them would make a very Horrible Wife to begin with. And they really are Usually the Biggest Cheaters anyway since they cause most Divorces today Unfortunately.
Too much trouble with getting married. So much better to stay single. Personal freedom, much more fun, self respect and much much more.
Imagine, all these will be lost as men get married. Personally, i hate women telling me what to do. I love to be a leader and set the rules.
In other words, i like old fashioned, submissive women. This doesn’t work anymore with modern feminist and EGO-centric women these days.
My question would be, where did all the good women go? They are all extinct!
im a submissive wife who’s a feminist, pro-choice, and very angry at this message (-_-)
im a submissive wife and happy, but this article belongs in the 1950’s.
I grew up religious, turned away from religion, and got wit a non reilgious woman… All I have to say is PLEASE, if you are a man, PLEASE get with a religious woman, you wont have to argue, fuss and fight and explain this basic shit toi her everyday, which will make you live longer, and be happier!! PLEASE DO NOT EVER GET WITH OR DATE, OR SLEEP WITH A WOMAN WHO ISNT RELIGIOUS, and DOESNT WANT TO DO WHATS RIGHT!
Pls what can one do for a woman who is not submissive? I need an advance cos am tired
Brian Carey,
women aretired of your onesided jargon, articles thrown at wives, while you omit preaching to the husbands. So hypocritical! Please stop scolding wives, unless you are going to scold husbands.
Just wondering why….so many men and some women are always harping on wives submitting? Tell you what, write some articles about the happiest husbands being the ones who lay down their lives for their wives and honoring and living with their wives in an understanding way. Do you men realize how laying down your lives is just as awesome and powerful as wives submittting. Remember that men, when you go on your tangents about submissive wives. “Submit to one another”
When it all boils down………husbands should be laying down their lives and wives sill be submitting. It’s All the same Brian Carey! 2-18-17
In the article it said submissive woman are happy Im submissive woman and i HATE IT!
Bullshit.. Submissive woman attracts a potential abuser & control freaks. Y’all know most of the victims of domestic abuse are the submissive ones.. And most healthy relationships I know are the egalitarian type.. who does not need to dominate each otha’ .. Rltnships are based on mutual respect, love and trust not s/d type which destroy a women’s spirit..